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Truth and Transcendence, brought to you by being Space with Katherine Llewellyn.
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Truth and Transcendence, episode 198, with special guest Brad Smith.
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Brad is here today to talk about deep intuition.
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Brad runs a masterclass for deep intuition development for CEOs and R&D teams.
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He has studied mysticism, intuition and human development for more than 55 years.
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He's been an analytical chemist, a production plant and equipment designer, a business manager, a business consultant and an executive coach for CEOs and business owners.
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So this is an interesting man of many parts And-Ccom.
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So that's where you can find him and that will be in the show notes as well.
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So, brad, thank you so much for coming on the show.
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I'm delighted.
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I'm delighted.
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So you have been interested in deep intuition for some time.
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Are you able?
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to kind of cast your mind back and remember the first time that you realized that intuition was very important.
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Well, my pursuit was not intuition.
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My pursuit was, if you would, spiritual evolution.
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And so I started doing practices, meditation included, and I realized to answer your question I had been doing those for about seven or maybe eight months and at the same time I was an analytical formulation chemist and in that work I would run into blocks.
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It's like okay, here's a dead end, I don't have the answers.
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On the other side of that chasm, if you would.
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And so I would stop and have to analyze things.
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I was standing in my lab thinking through the things that I had to work through to get to a product I was formulating, and I realized that I could hold six times as much information in my mind at the same time and correlate it than I could seven months earlier.
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That was like a huge aha, because I could literally hold and there's more stories behind that but I could hold six times as much information that I could when I was, you know, linear, analytically thinking about things.
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It would go point A, point B, point C and maybe jump a few steps right, but this time, in the lab.
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I was able to hold the whole experiment in my mind and correlate all the parts that worked and find out the specific puzzle.
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It's like being able to hold a thousand-piece jigsaw puzzle in your head and find the four pieces you haven't put together yet.
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Right, and you suddenly were able to do this, and you weren't able to do it put together yet.
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Right, and you suddenly were able to do this, and you weren't able to do it seven months beforehand, right?
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So what?
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What happened in between those two times?
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Well, it was like between before and after.
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It's like I worked.
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You know, I did my work right, but it was like one morning I had this realization that I had capabilities that I didn't.
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It was all right.
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Right, I'm going to describe it to people so they know what deep intuition is when you have an epiphany, the brain bounces into a whole system process that when you're doing any QEEG measuring the brain electrical activity we normally have beta for analytical thinking, alpha for daydreaming, theta for the first part of a 90-minute sleep cycle and delta for the deepest part of what our brain operates at in the bottom 30 minutes of a 90-minute sleep cycle.
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And occasionally you'll have gamma, which means the whole brain is active and synchronizing across the whole brain.
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What happens when you have an epiphany is the whole brain kits into gamma and you've got the whole brain working all at once.
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So what that means is you've gotten an information chunk.
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If you would, that correlates all the stuff that you've been working on.
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Whatever problem it is that you get the epiphany about right.
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I had an epiphany that was not a good speaker, so it's like oh, okay, fine, what are we going to do about that, right?
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So in the process of doing that.
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That's what deep intuition feels like.
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Think about every one of you that's listening has had an epiphany of one sort or another to answer a question.
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Maybe it's one you're working on, maybe it's one you've kind of daydreamed a little bit about.
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It's like okay.
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Or maybe it's just an aha about life.
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You've had them.
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That's what deep intuition is.
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Being able to hold that state open on a constant basis and ask for continual feed of information from your subconscious and the collective unconscious is what deep intuition is about.
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I want people to have that.
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Got it.
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So you are describing deep intuition as a state, aren't you?
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Rather than a skill or a faculty or a…?
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It is both.
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It is a state of being, but it's something you can consciously regulate.
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Yeah, okay, but I'm just really struck by the way you're describing it as being different from how people often describe intuition.
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You know, they describe intuition as if it's some sort of talent as opposed to a state, because a state and a talent are not the same thing.
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They might be coexistent, but it's two different ways of looking at the same thing, isn't it?
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Oh, dear Catherine just froze for the last 60 seconds or so.
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Okay, well, I'm here now.
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Okay.
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So you didn't hear what I just said.
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No, please say it again.
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Okay, cool, so listeners are going to hear it twice.
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Obviously there's an important reason for that.
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So I was saying that often when people talk about intuition, they talk about it as if it's some sort of talent or gift or something.
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People don't tend to speak about it as a state.
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It sounds like you're saying it's both.
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It's both.
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I mean it's a gift.
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Yeah, but you're emphasizing the state aspect of it and the way you're describing it in relationship to these different modes of awakeness or dreaming or whatever we might think of.
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I haven't heard people talk about intuition in exactly that way before, so I find that very interesting.
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So please continue.
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Well, it's been interesting to experience.
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So we have our physical, waking consciousness.
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We run around and we're comfortable.
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By the time you hit your 20s, you're comfortable with it and you have dreaming, which is where your brain remembers a dream state, and then you have higher levels of consciousness above that.
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So, as you meditate, what happens is especially with binaural beat meditation, but it doesn't matter whether you're using mantras or just counting your breath or whatever.
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Over time, what happens is the brain builds neural networks, because we're plastic, right.
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It remolds itself.
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It builds neural networks across the brain so that the whole brain eventually gets to the place where it operates together.
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In addition to that, we have lucid dreaming Okay, well, this is like being.
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Intuition is then a state above lucid dreaming, where you have access to more of the collective unconscious, the collective conscious mind, if you will.
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We have individual physical consciousness, we have the individual subconscious and we have the collective unconscious, as Carl Jung described it.
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Yes.
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And somewhere between normal analytical thinking point A, point B, point C and the way I describe intuition as being able to go to point A, point Q, point Z, whatever and you do that in jumps.
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Well, deep intuition is being able to stand back and be in the whole alphabet all at once.
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Yeah, that is more specific.
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Yes, thank you yes.
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Beyond that, what happens is we evolve eventually to where we are what's called omniscient.
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We know everything to do with Earth.
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That's a really exalted state.
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Buddha had that right and eventually Jesus evolved to that and the other mystics right.
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They eventually got to it.
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But Earth is a school for us to learn those skills.
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All of us have that potential in front of us Now if you've done a lot of the drugs you've burned out the receptor.
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That's why I don't do drugs.
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I heard that I'm going.
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Okay, I'm done Because I want this as a continual state, whether I'm in this body or another.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Yeah.
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Okay, so clearly you're very grounded in this understanding.
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How did, how did you gain this understanding?
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Years of study.
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It's like I wanted to understand what happened to me in the lab.
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What happened to me when I have that kind of altered state, the most expanded I have been.
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Well, I won't describe that, but when you get to a certain place you start having experiences above and outside your physical body and still grounded in your physical body.
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If you've developed that skill, yeah.
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So where did you go when you had this extraordinary experience?
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Oh, I realized what I had been doing was working.
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That was part of my second epiphany that day.
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It's like, oh look, I can hold the whole experiment in my mind and correlate all the parts that are working right.
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Yeah.
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And then my second thought was oh, what I've been doing works, we're going to keep doing it, yeah.
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So prior to that you've been meditating and doing other things.
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Right Meditation tanaynama.
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People have looked that up.
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So breathing exercises, energy movement exercises and a couple others.
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Do you think that if people follow those sorts of because someone could hear you saying this and think, yeah, but this guy's uniquely talented, you know, I'm never going to connect with all this stuff, right, you know do you think that if people do embark on some of those practices that you just described, that it's an inevitable path to reach that sort of awareness?
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Or you do think that oh, I know it for a fact.
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How do you know it for a?
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fact Because, all right, I'm going to go way down the rabbit hole right now I have memory of about 54 different lives over a 20,000, 40,000 year span Not the whole life, but chunks of them, right, and in that process.
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What I've watched in that process is the evolution of my abilities that showed up this lifetime.
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So if you put a lot of work into it, you get a lot of.
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You can do it in one lifetime but, you don't.
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You know, it doesn't necessarily have to be that way, but whatever you do adds to whatever you've done and it shows up that way.
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So that's one part of the description process.
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As I've studied who I am and what I am like, brad's the beaker right.
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Put things in the beaker and see what happens and experiment with Brad the beaker right.
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I love that.
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Oh, you know, I, I, yeah, it's, it's how I treat myself.
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It's like.
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I like me, I treat myself really well.
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But that's only after years of not treating myself really well, the start of my story.
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A couple of pieces, but one fall term, freshman year at Oregon State, I developed an ulcerated bleeding colon.
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Ouch, okay, got to the doctor and the doctor changed my life in three sentences.
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First one was gee, brad, if you'd have waited to come see me this is to an 18-year-old if you'd have waited to come see me, if you'd have waited six weeks to come see me this is to an 18-year-old if you'd have waited to come see me, if you'd have waited six weeks to come see me, you'd have bled to death.
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Right, he had my attention completely because it hurt all the time and it bled pretty much all the time.
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Okay, then he said you'll never eat strawberries, corn or lettuce or anything with roughage.
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These are things I liked Ever again in your life.
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And my 18-year-old brain said fat chance, buddy, that's not happening.
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And then he said you have a psychosomatic disease.
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Your emotions affect the severity of your symptoms.
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I knew what that word meant and it meant that I had created my disease.
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Knew what that word meant and it meant that I had created my disease.
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And if I had created it unconsciously, then I could figure out how to make it conscious and uncreated.
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So I had a 100% commitment to conquer this sucker.
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It's not if it was just when and how.
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So nine months later, 10 months later, I had the no.
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About six months later I had it down to where the bleeding was not all the time, it was episodic.
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Okay, then the pain was still there, and that took about another three years.
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So four years after the doctor visit, I had the pain settle down to where it was episodic.
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But I was looking for the cause.
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What decisions had I made, even unconsciously?
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What decisions had I made that put my body into that state?
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And so I tracked it back and back, and back and back and back and finally uncovered what I thought was my first spanking at about normal memory.
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At about 11 months old.
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I was walking, I had the lid off the diaper pail, I was playing with the diapers because there was a cool cloud that came off the back end of it right, I mean a really clear memory, the back end of it, right, let me know really clearly.
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And so my poor mom saw that totally freaked out which is very understandable and spanked me and hauled me away from it, washed my hands, put the lid on the diaper pail right and scolded me.
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And I felt at that moment, emotionally, I made the decision that I'd gone from unconditional love from her to conditional love, that I had to be a certain way, and that's what was the core of my disease at 47.
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So 18 was the wake up, and 47, I finally found a hypnotherapist she's a good friend now, but a hypnotherapist that took me back into that, regressed me back to that 11-month-old, one-year state and reworked that memory from an adult perspective rather than a one-year-old's perspective, and within a year all my symptoms were gone permanently.
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Wow, congratulations.
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Well, so if we can conquer that, there is nothing in our life we can't conquer.
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Yeah, so you sound to me like somebody who, when something's got your attention, you're going to grab it and you're going to address it Right.
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Have you always been like that?
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Well, no, as near as I can remember.
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Because that's a fantastic asset to have really, because otherwise we can get these epiphanies and these insights but then we sort of moan and whinge about it for another 30 years.
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Well, I don't like being a victim.
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So what this psychosomatic word taught me was I was already in charge, I just didn't know it.
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And so if your life has certain aspects to it that you don't like, you're the one that created it.
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What's the purpose of that?
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So I got deeper into that.
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What's the purpose of our life the way it is?
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Good relationship, bad relationship, good money, bad money, good money, bad money, good world, bad world.
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That's the one we're working on right now right.
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And so you go back into what are the decisions that make that?
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So here's another piece out of my business, woke up in a business, woke up in a business coaching people, and I realized about two years into oh gee, brad, if you don't go, get new clients, you're not going to have a business and you'll have to go back and get a job.
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Do you want to work for somebody else?
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No, I like what I do.
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A lot.
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So what are you going to do about that?
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Oh, go get new clients.
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Well, what's that going to mean?
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So what are you going to do about that?
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Oh, go get new clients.
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Well, what's that going to mean?
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Well, the only solution I had at that time was get a list of all the business employers you know big employers in the area and cold call them and, you know, find out who wants to evolve and grow.
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That's not how I put it, it's like who wants to achieve certain goals, right.
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So I did cold calling and one afternoon I was halfway you know, partway through the list, worked from the bottom up to practice, right, and I ran into five people and finally the last guy and I appreciate this from him he just shredded me to death.
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It's like, ow, that was really, really bad.
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I got off the phone, I hung up why does that feel so bad?
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And I realized after you know, put paper up, start writing, coaching myself if you would.
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And what I got to was oh, you're giving everyone you call the permission, the responsibility, of setting my value with me.
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Yes, that is huge, that's from the outside in.
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Well, I'm going to give my parents that responsibility and that's what I gave them when I was, you know, one year old, right, two years old.
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I gave them the responsibility Didn't know that, but I gave them the responsibility of setting my value with myself.
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So if I don't set my value with myself only and I give that responsibility to everybody else, I'm going to continue to have really bad phone calls.
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So it took about a week.
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I changed that.
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I was only giving people the opportunity to work with me.
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I was no longer giving them the responsibility to set my value with myself, and I changed my whole life.
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Yeah, and I'll bet it's much more attractive as a coach as well.
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Well, it meant what I was working on with people was to help them be the power in their lives, not everything else.
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Yes, Fantastic.
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You're very good at the self-adjusting business, Mind you.
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You're looking back now, aren't you?
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I bet it wasn't quite as smooth as it might sound now.
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Well, but that's the intuition.
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Like Brad, here's a trail.
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Follow this sucker right.
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Conquer this disease.
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Well, the disease is my best teacher.
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I know Rav really well now.
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I know my emotions, I know my character.
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I know what works, I know what doesn't work.
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Look everyone here's homework.
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Look at your life and see what works and what doesn't work.
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What are you good at right?
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Well, that's a set of skills you've developed.
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What are you not good at?
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What doesn't work in your life?
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That's a set of skills and decisions you've made to have it be different than what you want.
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Yeah, yeah.
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So it's a complete responsibility for the state of play.
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Adulthood Right, what Adulthood.
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Adulthood, right?
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It's like the whole point of being a human being is to have that wake-up call I'm responsible for everything in my life.
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Well, if I'm not responsible for something in my life, who am I giving that responsibility to?
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Yeah, right, I might share it with my partner, right?
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But it's like, okay, if I'm not sharing it, then I'm irresponsible.
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Yeah right, yeah, fantastic, well, amazing.
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So you've you've done all this work and you brought yourself to this place you're at now, which means you're now a great resource for other people.
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So you sounds like you made some significant shifts after having started doing coaching with people, and you were, you were working with corporate clients, and you're still doing that now yep, I mean, I've got a skill I might as well do.
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I love doing the work yeah, the way I describe it.
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The reason I renamed my company stellar insight is what I do when I work with a client is I listen carefully to what they want and where they're at, and almost always there's a gap.
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And if they're where they're at and it's what they want, then fine, there's no need for coaching.
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But if there's a gap between where they are and what they want, for whatever reason, right, they need a whole string of epiphanies to get there.
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And what I do is I, when I sit down with someone, is I look at them, I look at their character, I listen deeply to how they see themselves, how they feel about themselves and their world, and then I understand the epiphanies they have to go through in order to get to their goal.
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Maybe I don't know them all immediately to articulate them, but I know there's a string of them and my job is to listen deeply enough to them and ask them the right questions so that they get to their epiphanies when they are ready for them, not before, but when they're ready for it, as soon as they can handle them.